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Three days of connection, conversation, and community

Keynote speakers, workshops, shared meals, and accommodation included. All men welcome.

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What is The Gathering?

The Gathering is an annual weekend event that brings together men from across Australia — initiated and uninitiated, young and old, first-timers and regulars. It’s three days of talks, workshops, shared meals, music, and honest conversation in a relaxed, welcoming setting.

Whether you’ve been part of CFMF for years or you’re just curious about what we do, The Gathering is the easiest way to experience the community. No pressure, no prerequisites — just show up.

“I firstly went to The Gathering as a low-barrier event. I loved what I saw and experienced, so it was natural that I wanted to take the next step and do my Rites.”

— Gathering attendee

For many men, The Gathering is the beginning. A chance to see what this community is about — and to be seen by it.

What to expect

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Keynotes & Talks

Hear from men who’ve done the work — speakers who share real stories, hard-won wisdom, and ideas that challenge you to think differently about what it means to be a man today.

Workshops

Smaller group sessions where you can go deeper. Topics range from practical skills to inner work — there’s something for every man, wherever he is on the journey.

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Shared Meals

All meals are included and shared together. Some of the best conversations happen over a plate of food — unhurried, generous, and real.

Community & Connection

The Gathering is as much about the spaces in between as it is about the program. Campfire conversations, a drink with a stranger who becomes a mate, drumming circles under the stars.

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All men are welcome

  • Men who've been through MROP or Forged and want to reconnect
  • Men who are curious about CFMF and want to see what it's about
  • Men who want a meaningful weekend away with good blokes
  • Fathers and sons, mates, brothers — come together
  • Men of any age, background, faith, or stage of life

No experience required. If you’re interested in the deeper programs, The Gathering is the best place to start — check out Men’s Rites of Passage (30+) or Forged (18–30).

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A taste of The Gathering

Common questions about The Gathering

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Come and see for yourself

Three days. Good men. Good food. Real conversation. No pressure — just show up.